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I cheat on my husband with a lover, and he doesn't mind: is this normal?


by Vanessa Charles


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Is fidelity important in a relationship? Can you cheat on your partner and still have a happy, fulfilling relationship? This blog post explores the question of infidelity in couples, through the testimony of a woman who chose to cheat on her husband. She talks about how her partner has no problem with it, and asks whether it's normal.

I cheat on my husband with a lover, and he doesn't mind: is this normal?

Why doesn't it bother my husband that I'm cheating on him?

It's common to think that monogamy is the norm in romantic relationships. However, it is possible to find couples where infidelity is tolerated, even encouraged. In this article, we'll look at this particular type of relationship and try to understand why my husband doesn't mind me cheating on him.

First of all, monogamy is not a universal norm. Indeed, in some cultures, it's perfectly normal not to be faithful to your partner. For example, in some African tribes, men can have several wives and women can have several husbands.

So monogamy is not an absolute rule, and it's possible to have a non-monogamous relationship without any problems. However, in Western culture, monogamy is the norm and infidelity is often frowned upon.

In a monogamous couple, infidelity is generally seen as a lack of respect for one's partner. However, in a couple where infidelity is tolerated, it can be seen in an entirely different light. In fact, some couples see infidelity as proof of love, since it proves that you're still attracted to your partner.

In a couple where infidelity is tolerated, it's important to discuss the subject openly and set clear rules so that everyone knows what they can and can't do. For example, it's important to agree not to sleep with people close to you (friends, family, etc.).

In conclusion, it is perfectly possible to be in a non-monogamous relationship without any problems. However, it is important to discuss this subject openly with your partner and to establish clear rules so that everyone knows what they can and cannot do.

I cheat on my husband with a lover, and he doesn't mind: is this normal?

Why does my husband want me to cheat?

Have you ever felt that your husband was encouraging you to cheat on him? If so, you're not alone. In fact, more and more women are complaining that their husbands want them to have an extramarital relationship. But why do men do this? Is this normal or is there something wrong? In this article, we'll try to answer these questions.

I want to cheat on my husband, how to make him accept?

It's quite common for couples to have differences of opinion about fidelity. Some couples are very open and accepting of each other having sex with other people, while others are more jealous and don't want their partner to have sex with other people. If you're in a relationship where you want to cheat on your husband, but don't want to hurt his feelings or make him angry, it can be hard to know how to get him to agree. This article will give you some tips on how to cheat on your husband in a way that will make him OK with it.

Before you cheat on your husband, you'll need to discuss it with him first. Some men are very open-minded and will agree to you having sex with other men, but others may be more jealous. If you're not sure how he'd react, it's best to discuss it before you do anything. You'll need to explain why you want to cheat and see what he thinks. It's important to remember that some men need time to think about something before making a decision, so don't be disappointed if your husband doesn't immediately want you to cheat.

Once you've talked to him and he's OK with you cheating, there are a few things to keep in mind. First of all, make sure you don't fall in love with your lover. This could cause problems if your husband finds out. Secondly, be discreet about your relationship. Don't tell everyone what you're doing, and don't send compromising text messages or emails. Finally, make sure you take good care of your husband and your relationship. Cheating on your husband can be exciting, but it's important not to neglect your primary relationship.

I think it's perfectly normal for my husband not to be jealous of my lover. After all, we're both consenting adults, and we both need our personal space. I'm not sure it's the same for every couple, but it works for us.


1. Is it normal for my husband to take no notice of my infidelities?

It's not uncommon for couples to accept each other's infidelities without seeing it as a problem, and it can even strengthen their relationship. If you're sure your husband doesn't have a problem with it, and you both agree that your infidelities aren't putting your relationship at risk, then there's nothing to worry about.

2. Does this mean that my husband is unfaithful too?

Not necessarily. He may simply be more tolerant of infidelities than other people. Or it could be that he's in an extramarital relationship himself and therefore doesn't consider your infidelities to be a problem.

3. I'm still a bit worried: is this normal?

It's perfectly normal to have doubts or worries when you cheat on your partner, even if he or she agrees with it. This may be difficult to accept at first, but you should try to reassure yourself that it doesn't call your relationship into question.

4. What if my husband changes his mind?

If your husband ever changes his mind and starts taking offense at your infidelities, you'll need to discuss it with him to find out what's wrong. He may simply need time to get used to the idea, or there may be a deeper problem in your relationship.

5. Should I tell my lover?

It's not compulsory to talk to your lover about your infidelities, but if you have any doubts or concerns, it can be helpful to do so. It may help you understand what's going on and whether it's safe to continue seeing your lover.

Vanessa Charles

A (very) close friend of Cupid and a true lover of relationships of all kinds, I am the main editor of Give Me Date. I answer your questions about couples, sexuality and dating and I test dating sites to give you a subjective opinion on how to find love or meet new people.

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