Dating, Long-distance relationships

We were supposed to meet, but I haven't heard from you: what should I do?


by Vanessa Charles


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That uneasy feeling we get when we wait to hear from someone and they don't come can be very unpleasant. We ask ourselves: What happened? Should I take the initiative to contact this person? In this blog post, we will discuss the answer to these questions and reveal what you can do when you have no news from someone you were supposed to see.

Why did he/she leave me without news when we were supposed to meet?

When someone we have been waiting for leaves us without news, it can be very confusing and stressful. A sudden silence can leave you feeling uncertain and confused. If you find yourself in a situation where you were supposed to see someone, but haven't heard from them, there are some things to consider.

Let's start by assessing the situation. It is important to take time to think about what happened and why. Did he/she mention anything that might have prevented him/her from coming? If so, try to learn more about the circumstances. Perhaps what he/she told you was ambiguous and you still don't know if he/she was having trouble or if he/she just forgot.

Next, explore the various options for resolving the problem. One option is to contact the person in question directly to get more information. However, before going any further, it is advisable to do a thorough analysis of the history of your relationship and see if he/she usually behaves this way when he/she is to be seen with you. If this seems to be unusual, then contact her/him to get more information and try to find a compromise so that you can work things out between you.

On the other hand, if that person doesn't show any sign of life despite several attempts to get in touch with him/her, it may be time to give up and move on. Sometimes, some people simply decide that they don't want to see each other or don't want to be in contact with us anymore - this can unfortunately happen sometimes. In this case, it's best to move on and keep moving despite the disappointment.

Finally, when all this is behind us, let's try to learn from it and try to use this experience to better manage our future relationships. Remember that all relationships are unique and that each person has their own way of communicating - so let's try to adjust our expectations based on the circumstances to avoid situations like this in the future.

What does it mean when you don't hear from someone when you planned to see them?

Worry, communication, frustration, anxiety

When you don't hear from someone you were supposed to see, it can cause anxiety and frustration. It can also lead to worry and uncertainty, which can be very painful if it continues.

Sometimes this lack of communication may be due to something the other person does not want to address or does not know how to address. It is possible that the person is simply busy or overwhelmed and has not found the time to contact you. In this case, the best thing to do is to try to communicate with them and ask questions to get clear answers. It is important that you talk to the other person so that you can understand what is going on.

Another possibility is that the person has personal or professional problems that are distracting them from your appointment. In this case, it is important that you take the time to ask about them and show your support. Your friendship and support can go a long way in helping the person overcome their difficulty.

It is also possible that the person is simply nervous or anxious about meeting you or has mixed feelings about meeting you. If this is the case, encourage them to talk openly with you about it so that together you can find a way to overcome this nervousness and get past this awkwardness.

In all cases, it is important to be patient and understanding and to try to understand what is going on before considering solutions. Avoid hasty assumptions and listen carefully to what the other person is trying to say so that you can better understand their point of view. Once you have done this, you will be able to talk openly and find a solution that is satisfactory to both parties.

In short, when someone doesn't show any sign of life when they were supposed to be with you, it can be very frustrating and anxiety-provoking. However, it is important to adopt an understanding attitude because there are many possible reasons for this lack of communication. The best thing to do is to try to communicate clearly with the person concerned in order to try to understand what is going on before considering solutions adapted to the needs of both parties.

How can I contact him/her again if I have not heard from him/her when we were supposed to meet?

The best thing to do when you haven't heard from someone when you were supposed to meet is to follow up. This may seem like a daunting task, but it is essential to maintaining good communication and ensuring a positive outcome. Here are a few ways to follow up with someone without looking like a stalker.

First of all, stay calm and patient. It is possible that the person you are talking to is busy or has simply forgotten to contact you. Don't jump to conclusions and decide that the appointment won't happen before you try to contact him/her again. Take the time to think about how you are going to get in touch with him/her and make sure you choose your words carefully.

If possible, avoid long messages that could be considered aggressive or intrusive. Limit yourself to a few short sentences to avoid confusion and clearly express your request. A direct approach is best, but try to keep your tone polite. Use words such as "please" and "thank you" to show your respect and gratitude, which will facilitate communication between you and the person you are talking to.

The third point to consider is timing. If your request is urgent, send a message immediately after you have noticed that your contact does not respond to your first contact. Do not send too many messages as this may give a negative impression and may even lead to the cancellation of the proposed appointment. On the other hand, if time is not a constraint, wait patiently for a few days before sending a discreet reminder.

Another option is to send an email to follow up if the other person does not respond to the phone calls or instant messages you send. An email can be more easily noticed because it can be kept in the recipient's inbox until they take a look at it. However, be sure to use appropriate greetings and kind words to maintain a good relationship between you and the recipient.

Finally, be prepared for the possibility that the person you are talking to may never respond to your request or may not want to see you again; however, by sending a polite and well-worded request, you can at least show that you are respectful to the person you are talking to and avoid unnecessary conflict if the response is not positive. Good communication is essential to maintaining positive relationships with others, so taking the time to send a polite request can be very beneficial in the long run.

In conclusion, communication is the foundation of any lasting and healthy relationship. In the event that the person you were supposed to see is no longer in touch with you, it is better to try to communicate and understand the situation, rather than getting lost in feelings of anger and frustration. Taking the time to understand can help you find a solution and restore trust and harmony to your relationship.


How do I know if my friend is busy?

You can contact your friend via a phone call or text message to see if they are available to meet you. It is also possible to try to reach him on social networks.

How do I know if my friend has forgotten me?

It's not always easy to know if someone has forgotten you or if they've just been busy. If you haven't heard from them after several days, you can take the initiative to contact your friend for more information.

What do I do if I don't receive a response?

If you don't hear back from your friend after you've taken the initiative to contact him or her, it's possible that he or she no longer wants to see you. In this case, try to talk openly with your friend to get an explanation.

What if I still want to see me?

If you still want to meet, try contacting your friend again and ask if he or she is available to meet. If not, suggest another date and time that would be convenient for both of you.

What if I don't want to see me anymore?

If you no longer wish to see each other, you can make it clear to your friend that this is no longer possible. Make sure that this decision is respected by everyone and try to discuss it openly to make sure that the situation is understood by all parties.

Vanessa Charles

A (very) close friend of Cupid and a true lover of relationships of all kinds, I am the main editor of Give Me Date. I answer your questions about couples, sexuality and dating and I test dating sites to give you a subjective opinion on how to find love or meet new people.

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